But the LORD said to him, “Pay no attention to how tall and handsome he is. I have rejected him, because I do not judge as people judge. They look at the outward appearance, but I look at the heart.” – 1 Samuel 16:7
Two things I’ve been reminded: First, look at the person’s heart rather than his/her outward appearance (it’s easy to tell but sometimes it’s really hard to do it that’s why God keeps reminding me about this.) The second one, focus on my heart more than my outside look. For God says so, he’s not after about our outside appearance but in our hearts instead. There’s nothing wrong in making ourselves looking good and charming, let’s just make up our inner beauty first. For inner beauty standouts and outward appearance will just follow.